Today, Áine and Sophia open a tender conversation about pleasure as a daily ritual and how it connects to love, intimacy, and abundance. What begins with reclaiming (or resisting) certain words quickly deepens into a reflection on how self-pleasure can nourish the body, calm the nervous system, and awaken new possibilities in life. Pleasure, they remind us, isn’t just about release—it’s about creating energy, vitality, and magnetism. Together they explore everything from the roots of orgasm to the ways nervous system regulation shapes our ability to love, desire, and even attract money. Sophia shares how safety rewires connection, while Áine reflects on how pleasure weaves through motherhood, creativity, and everyday magic. At its heart, this episode invites you to ask: where is your body longing for ritual, and what might open for you when pleasure leads the way?
"The ability to receive pleasure is also a way to reset the nervous system and return to balance."
Today, Áine and Sophia open a tender conversation about pleasure as a daily ritual and how it connects to love, intimacy, and abundance. What begins with reclaiming (or resisting) certain words quickly deepens into a reflection on how self-pleasure can nourish the body, calm the nervous system, and awaken new possibilities in life. Pleasure, they remind us, isn’t just about release—it’s about creating energy, vitality, and magnetism.
Together they explore everything from the roots of orgasm to the ways nervous system regulation shapes our ability to love, desire, and even attract money. Sophia shares how safety rewires connection, while Áine reflects on how pleasure weaves through motherhood, creativity, and everyday magic. At its heart, this episode invites you to ask: where is your body longing for ritual, and what might open for you when pleasure leads the way?
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Key Takeaways:
Pleasure as Ritual, Not To-Do List - Instead of treating self-pleasure as something to “get done,” Áine reframes it as a sacred ritual, a way to awaken energy, nourish creativity, and connect with the body beyond release.
The Nervous System and Abundance - Sophia highlights how manifestation isn’t about mindset alone but about the state of the nervous system. Safety and relaxation open the body to intimacy, wealth, and soul-aligned opportunities.
The Split Between Lust and Love - They discuss how lust and love often run on separate circuits, leading to challenges in intimacy and arousal, especially for men who have long separated sex from emotional connection.
The Link Between Sex, Safety, and Wealth - The conversation weaves sex, money, and nervous system health into one energetic field, showing how sacred intimacy and a regulated body attract not just love but also abundance and fulfillment.
What We Discussed:
00:00 Intro
00:24 Self Pleasure Sacred Ritual
03:58 The Origin of Masturbation
07:17 The Swelling of Sexual Energy
09:20 Problematic Money Mindset
13:02 Sympathetic vs Parasympathetic Nervous System
17:00 Why Attraction Don't Always Lead to Sexual Desire
21:02 The Different Ways We Experience PLeasure
22:50 The Benefits of Remapping Your Pleasure Points
26:23 Love and Safety Circuitry
28:23 How to Help Your Man Enjoy Pleasure
32:41 The Art of Receiving is a Relaxed Nervous System
Meet the Hosts:
Aine Rock is an Erotic Leadership & Pleasure Coach, with a broad background in the healing arts and personal development. She works with women to reclaim their pleasure, their sovereignty and their full expression.
Her intuitive approach and passion for awakening the Divine Feminine make her a powerful force in both business and spirituality.
Aine is on:
Website - https://ainerock.com/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/its_aine_rock/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/itsainerock
Dr. Sophia Trevenna is a scientist-turned-intuitive executive coach with a PhD focused on evolving business and economics. With a deep understanding of both analytical strategy and higher wisdom, she bridges the gap between structured business models and intuitive decision-making. Her expertise in business leadership, intuition, and holistic well-being allows her to create powerful, heart-centered business strategies.
Sophia is on:
Website - https://www.drsophiatrevenna.com/
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dr.sophiatrevenna/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/dr.sophiatrevenna
YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChUCzCLjhTpeCIuuDWVMEXw